Marissa + Jeff | Wedding in Grand Rapids
October 23, 2009When we met with Marissa and Jeff for their engagement photos and we heard about their plans for their wedding day, it became clear that it would be a day that we’d plan for ourselves if we got married again (to each other, of course!). “Way back then” in May, this fall seemed years (and so many weddings!) away, but when their date finally did arrive, it definitely did not disappoint. Marissa was so excited through the whole day; she soaked in every part of it with wide eyes and an easy laugh. And Jeff–when he turned around to see Marissa for the first time, he had the widest, brightest smile his face would allow, and his absolutely-enamored state didn’t diminish through the day (you’ll see). The beautiful settings speak for themselves, and every detail showed the care and generosity their families and friends gave to Marissa and Jeff’s special day.
If you follow us on twitter, you would have noticed last night’s update: “Just went through our wedding-to-be-blogged to pick favorites. 108 is too many to post, right? Right.” Well, in an effort to not overload browsers everywhere, we’ve distilled our favorites down to these:

The guys hung out at Jeff’s house for the morning, ate cheeseburgers, watched Will Ferrell give it more cowbell and call himself “Whiskers,” and when Jeff said it was “go” time, they got up and got ready! (Rule number 1 for groomsmen: listen to the groom. You’ll be so thankful when you’re the groom! Rule number 1 for grooms: pick groomsmen who listen!)




When we visited Townsend Park the day before the wedding, we spotted this sunny glade (I don’t often use the word “glade,” but this actually was!) nearby the ceremony site. It was filled with sunlight, wildflowers, and a big tree. Jeff waited here for Marissa for their own first look. It was a beautiful setting, but it would have been wonderful anywhere. They were both so into each other. They stood there, laughing, talking, hugging–all we had to do was stand back and watch. Leandra and I both think that seeing each other before the ceremony and waiting to see each other “on the aisle” have their benefits, and work better for different days’ schedules. For days when the last half of the schedule is tighter, planning on a “first look” and doing all the pictures before the ceremony really frees things up. Then, when the ceremony is over, the only job left for the bride and groom is to eat and party!
See Jeff’s smile? Enamored, captivated, smitten–all that and then some.


Love this one.





The supporting cast for the ceremony–with great performances all around!



Marissa and Jeff whispered to each other all day long.


After the ceremony, we traveled to Wabasis Lake Park for the magical reception… with a quick stop at the beach for some pictures. Leandra’s favorites.


Rocky, again. I love this “portrait” Leandra captured of him. Marissa and Jeff, instead of clinking glasses, required that whoever wanted them to kiss had to kiss. Someone thought it’d be a good joke to kiss the dog, but the idea flopped because Marissa and Jeff had no trouble whatsoever accepting a kiss from the beloved Rocky.

Marissa and Jeff set up yard games for guests to enjoy through the evening. It was a big hit with such perfect weather that day. Oh, and Marissa and Jeff’s monogram is JAM, so the question of favors was conveniently and perfectly answered for them. And the food. Homecooked and oh-so-tender pork barbecue, potatoes, dips, etc. etc.–the perfect fare for their outdoor reception. I would love to eat the food their caterers made at every wedding, so if you’re interested, I’ll get you in contact with them! But seriously, some of the best food we’ve had all year.


They moved inside for dancing.



Marissa and her brother, on the left.





Marissa and Jeff’s parents surprised them with a sparkler send-off!


Check out our facebook page to see more pictures from their wedding day!
Marissa and Jeff–thank you both so much for inviting us to photograph your beautiful, beautiful day! It was truly a joy for us.





























Brandi: What an adorable couple. Fabulous work as always!
Nell: Great photos, you captured the feel of the wedding and reception so well!